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More
Than "The Blues"
By: Cathryn Clark,
October 6, 2002
Psychological Counselor, Cabrillo Student Health Services
While we often talk about being depressed, real depression is
more than feeling blue or being sad. Brief episodes of sadness
are natural and usually have a temporary effect on our everyday
lives. In serious depression, as in many major illnesses, symptoms
that go untreated may continue indefinitely with devastating effects.
We may have difficulty getting out of bed or leaving the house.
We may refuse to go to work and class or withdraw from friends
and family. At times, we feel so hopeless that life doesn't seem
worth living.
What causes some people to become seriously depressed when tragedy
or misfortune strikes, while others recover quickly? While life
events or circumstances often trigger episodes of depression, the
causes of depression can vary from one person to the next. We still
don't understand why, when presented with the same set of factors,
one person becomes depressed and another doesn't. Genetics, personality
and environmental factors may all play a role. Sometimes brain
chemistry changes and for no apparent reason, even people who have
been happy, loved and fulfilled become seriously depressed.
So who's depressed- your neighbor, teacher, boss or relative?
Perhaps you are. Depression does not discriminate. It strikes people
of all ages, races, genders, incomes and educational backgrounds.
The World Health Organization ranks depression as one of the four
most devastating illnesses worldwide.
What are the signs of depression?
Take a moment to answer these questions or ask a friend who may
be having difficulty.
Are you
having trouble sleeping or sleeping too much? Are you rapidly gaining
or losing weight? Have you been feeling sad, hopeless or anxious,
all day, everyday, for at least two weeks? Are you missing classes?
Do you find your head filled with negative, persistent thoughts?
Are drinking, drug use or other behaviors out of your control?
Is it difficult to find pleasure in the things you usually enjoy?
Do you have thoughts of hurting yourself or someone else? Has anyone
expressed concern for your well being? If you answered "yes" to
any of these questions, you could benefit from talking with someone
you trust or a counselor.
So what can you do if you know someone who is depressed? Listen
to them. Be patient and supportive. Learn everything you can about
depression. Do not criticize or shame them for the way they feel.
Refer them to the Cabrillo College Student Health Center's web
site, www. cabrillo.cc.ca.us/studserv/Healthserv, to take a confidential
screening for depression, or call Student Services, 479-6378, to
schedule an appointment with a personal counselor.
What can you do if you are depressed? Do the same
things you would do for a friend. Take care of yourself by seeking
support. No matter
how hopeless you feel at this moment, your despair is an urgent
signal to take positive action. Start today.
A thirty-five year
old re-entry student came to see me for counseling after the
death of her son and divorce from her
husband of twelve
years. A friend
of hers had urged her to seek counseling when she had mentioned her overwhelming
despair and thoughts of suicide.
Depression has been around for
a long time. The early Romans called it "melancholia",
What are the
signs of depression? Depression is diagnosed if a person experiences
1) persistent feelings of sadness, emptiness
or anxiety or 2) loss of interest
or pleasure in usual activities in addition to five or more of the following
symptoms for at least 2 consecutive weeks. Changes in appetite that result
in weight losses or gains not related to dieting; insomnia or oversleeping;
loss of energy or extreme fatigue, restlessness or irritability; feelings
of worthlessness or inappropriate guilt, difficulty thinking, concentrating
or making decisions; or thoughts of death or suicide or attempts at suicide.
Depression is diagnosed if the above symptoms are not due to other conditions
or illness and are not side effects of medications or substance abuse.
When
we are challenged with an old way of being or thinking, depression
may be a state we enter in order to deal with
the crisis and hopefully emerge
more true to ourselves.
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